I’m dating someone, after being single for over 11½ years (but who’s counting? lol). It’s taking some getting used to after a decade of not having anyone I could be affectionate towards in a romantic way, but it’s definitely going well. She’s smart, principled, pretty and intelligent.
In addition, it’s been 5 months (to the day) since I’ve looked at porn which is incredible; I hadn’t gone more than a week or two without looking at it since I was thirteen, so for the last 20 years. I’m proud of myself and I’m confident that I’m moving in the right direction. Sometimes I don’t make as much progress as I want but I even on the days it feels like I’m standing still, I’m still making baby steps toward what I want for my life.